Greetings, cherished companions and fellow travelers on life’s winding path!
As I lay here, reflecting on over two decades of a life well-lived, my heart feels heavy with the memories of dear friends who’ve journeyed on ahead, leaving behind a gentle echo of their presence. Allow me to offer you a tender lesson born from a lifetime of love, loss, and the enduring legacy of those who’ve graced our lives.

In times of loss and grief, I’ve found that a few simple Do’s and Don’ts apply.
Do:
1. Allow Yourself to Grieve, Tenderheart: In the quiet solitude of sorrow, it’s natural to feel the weight of grief pressing upon your weary heart. Allow the tears to flow freely, dear one, for they are the sacred dewdrops that nourish the garden of memories we hold dear. Your sorrow is not a sign of weakness but a testament to the depth of love that binds us together.
2. Seek Comfort in Kindred Spirits: Amidst the gentle whispers of remembrance, seek solace in the company of those who understand the language of loss. Share stories, reminisce, and find strength in the kinship of kindred spirits who walk this journey alongside you. In the embrace of shared sorrow, we find the courage to heal. Consider creating a memorial – it could be a scrapbook of cherished moments, planting a tree in their memory, or even making a donation to an animal charity in their name. Celebrate the joy and love your pet brought into your life.
3. Embrace the Legacy of Love: In the hallowed halls of memory, our departed friends dance in the golden glow of cherished moments shared. Embrace their legacy, dear friend, for it is a beacon of light that guides us through the darkest of nights. Let their love illuminate your path and warm your soul with the gentle whisper of remembrance.

Don’t:
1. Rush the healing process: As we navigate the labyrinth of grief, there is no roadmap to guide us through the winding paths of sorrow. Resist the urge to rush the healing process, dear one, for time is a gentle healer that moves at its own pace. Allow yourself the grace to grieve and heal in your own time.
2. Suppress your emotions: In the wake of loss, it’s easy to neglect the needs of the tender heart that beats within your chest. It’s easy to want to push away the pain, but suppressing emotions can hinder the healing process. Allow yourself to feel the sadness, cry when you need to, and express your emotions in a way that feels right for you. Embracing your feelings is a crucial step toward acceptance and eventual peace.
3. Forget the joy and love you shared: As seasons change and time marches on, hold fast to the flickering flame of remembrance that illuminates the sacred chamber of your heart. Let their light shine bright, casting a warm glow upon the tapestry of your life for all eternity. Cherishing these memories will help keep their spirit alive in your heart.
Dear friends, may you find solace in the tender wisdom of these words, and may the memories of your beloved friend bring you peace in the quiet moments of reflection.
With deepest empathy and kindest regards,
Tigger 🐾💖




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